When you get pregnant there are many things that run through your mind, SO many things to be excited for, nervous for and plan for. I know I started planning the nursery immediately, and the first thing I did when I found out we were having a boy was buy him this onesie.
(There are little socks with Harleys on them to go with it ) This thing was on clearance at BabyGap for like $12….and as a new mom so excited for her little BOY, that was no problem (better than the $30 onesie on the next rack over!) It got me to thinking though, if I have to pay $12 every time my kid needs a onesie, I’m screwed. Of course for my shower we got TONS of clothes (and I know from other showers I’ve been to that mothers of girls get even more!) However, we worked our way through the baby shower clothes in about 3 months, people generally don’t think to give you larger sizes than that. But, let me tell you, he was STYLIN’ his first 3 months of life. ;) I could continue to shop clearance racks but then I’m still left paying about $5 – $8 an item. Not bad, but I knew I could do better. Here’s how:
I’ve loved garage saleing since I was a kid, but I think I love it even more now. I am a woman on a mission, a cheap woman on a mission too! (Yes, I’m the haggler no one likes dealing with.)
So here’s what to keep in mind for garage sales:
- Know what you’re looking for. – I always do a drive by. If I don’t see boxes of clothes or a table with a bunch of little pants and shirts all laid out, I don’t necessarily stop. It feels kind of rude to do, but it’s worth your time (especially if you’re carting the little one around with you). Go even a step further and look up G-sales on craigslist. Many people list their sales there and a brief description of what they’re selling. I also always let the host of the sale know what I’m looking for or how old my son is and they can usually come up with things I may be interested in and save me time by not digging through all their junk.
- People are just trying to get rid of their crap. – If they don’t sell it, it’s either going back inside, or they’re donating it and not making any money. With this in mind, I never pay asking price. Don’t feel rude, everyone does it. (If you’ve ever had your own garage sale you know this!) The last sale I went to the gal wanted $1 per piece. Now, that’s a little steep for me at a G-sale, so I grabbed 9 items and offered her $5….she took it! Remember, it never hurts to ask!
- Buy more, Pay less. - I went to one sale where they were selling clothes for .25c a piece (NOT BAD!). I grabbed 5 items and she let me take them for $1 (and I got Nautica pants and a Nautica shirt!). The more time you spend there, the more they talk to you, and the more you take off their hands, the more willing they are to let it go for less. I spent a bit of time at one sale while the gal was unloading some of her clothes still. She said “make me an offer” so I gathered up 10 items and offered her $5. She said that was fine, then I grabbed a wooden toy, she said $2 and I actually thought that was really fair so I grabbed it. Then I found the “Hungry Caterpillar” book and a pair of socks and asked if I could throw that in for my $7 I was paying them, and it was no problem!
I am lucky enough to live near a store that will buy my clothes for store credit. They sell clothes for kids of all ages and some Juniors and Maternity. I received some hand-me-down maternity clothes that didn’t work for me or my pregnant friends along with some hand-me-down baby clothes that were the wrong season for what I needed. I took those in to this store (about 3 bags) and they bought them from me for $50 of store credit!! WHAT?!?! I can use that at any time for stuff that I actually NEED. I had previously gone in with some old clothes and got enough to buy Nolan a cute little wooden rocking horse. They have really fair prices there and good-used quality, about $1.50 – $4.00 depending on the item. For winter months when you need clothes, this is definitely where I would go. (Unless your neighborhood has crazy winter-garage-salers, or you’re lucky enough to live somewhere where that big orange thing in the sky shows up more than 4 times a year…..what’s that thing called again…?) Anyway, look into finding a good used-kids-clothes store with good prices and will buy your clothes for store-credit, or even better, cash!
Now, I know you can’t control when your friends have babies, if they want to pass on their kid’s clothes, or if they’re generous or not. But, if you are part of a moms group, church or other group of people, let your need be known. There is no shame it letting people know that you’ll give their old clothes (toys or books) a good new home. Many people who are done having kids will be very happy to rid themselves of the stuff and help out a fellow mama. I received most of my maternity clothes by posting on my church’s community site that we were saving money for me to be a stay-at-home-mama and needed some maternity clothes….people responded with probably about 7 or so large trash-bags full of clothes!!! The ones that didn’t work for me I passed on to my 3 pregnant friends and the rest of it I sold at the consignment store! I also got a large trash bag full of boy clothes this way. Heck, even try craigslist! I’ve gotten a few trash-bags of clothes for a friend in need by posting in the wanted section. Be generous yourself, pass on the items that don’t work for you to another mama in need, this way she will do the same if someone passes some goodies down to her. The point is, let people know what you’re in the market for, I think you’d be surprised at how much people love to help a mother out!
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