Broke vs. Poor

Broke vs. Poor

To say that I have made poor choices with my money is an understatement. When I look back at all the stupid things I decided to do with money it sometimes hurts. By the time I turned age 21 I had wasted over $100,000 in three short years. SICK! If you missed that, let me write that again for emphasis. I WASTED OVER $100,000 IN LESS THAN 3 YEARS BY THE TIME I TURNED 21 YEARS OLD! Now, I won't get too much into that story (maybe another time), I do want to talk about the concept of being broke vs. being poor. Broke vs. Poor I want to lay out a quick definition so as to show the difference … [Read more...]

Budgeting Basics (Part 4): Why You Should Get a Month Ahead

Budgeting Basics (Part 4): Why You Should Get a Month Ahead

Of the many things I learned from Dave Ramsey, this is not one of them. This is something my mother-in-law suggested we do early in our marriage. She had been the single-parent of 3 children for over a decade at that point, and was (and still is!) an amazing budgeter. Since this is the only piece of financial advice she felt was important to impart to us before we started our life together, I knew to take heed and try to implement this as soon as possible. I would not hesitate to say that this has been the single most impactful decision we have ever made in terms of managing our money. Here's … [Read more...]

Budgeting Basics (Part 1): Laying Your Financial Foundation

Budgeting Basics (Part 1): Laying Your Financial Foundation

If you know me, you know I love budgets. Like, borderline obsessive about it. My spreadsheets are  simple works of art, delivering powerful, functional information that helps me get a handle on our daily spending and overall financial picture for the month. I can easily say that, without our budget, we would not have a home, my wife would not be a stay-at-home mom, and we’d most likely be BROKE. Now, before we jump into the details of getting your budget started, let’s talk about the basics. Your Priority Filter Over the years, I have learned that I can’t simply adopt someone else’s … [Read more...]